Oh yeah, I was all set for the retirement as well. Still might be able to pull it off at 62 but I'm not sure now. Before it was a sure thing.
I still find myself getting caught on being 'fair' when it comes to the alimony. As tuffgirl said, fair is where you go to ride the rides. I think I'm getting of that ride now.
Oh, my AW would have handled the fart in the elevator by admitting she farted but trying to convince me that somehow it was my fault. Sad part is that for a long time I would have agreed with her.
Your friend,