OMG: Just had a fight with AH yesterday and I realized that one of his favorite sayings is: Define that.
He wants me to go into explanation about how I feel he doesn't respect me. He says, "Define that." He said it 3 times yesterday and I just about blew up. Of course, in the same conversation he told me that all of humanity is stupid, but he's not. I specifically said, "Well, you're human, doesn't that make you stupid too?" Nope, he's not stupid. The DUI wasn't stupid. Breaking his work computer wasn't stupid. Punching the dog in anger years ago, that wasn't stupid. How about when he drove our kid around while drinking? Nope, that wasn't stupid. UGH! UGH! It's sheer insanity, seriously.