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wanttobehealthy I'm blown away by the similarities ...
My stbxAH has many many many times said the following (and I thought I was alone in finding them infuritating)
"I'm sorry you feel that way"
"I understand"
"I see"
And don't forget "yeah, you're right"!
"The last thing I want to do is hurt you" (emotionally that is) - if I had a pound for every time I heard that I'd be living in a life of luxury
"Why do you hate me?" normally said after aggressive drunk has changed into self-pitying drunk.