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Old 05-14-2012, 04:51 AM
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stressedwife
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Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: North Augusta, SC
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I'm sorry for your pain and what you are gonig through. As everyone says, keep coming here and reading and posting as it helps so much.

Since there is so much he can't drink, sounds like he shouldn't drink at all. You shouldn't have to worry about keep the children away from their Daddy when he's drunk. That isn't right or normal. My AH of 30 years has been verbally abusive, still is. The times I"ve talked to him about how I feel when he's that way never did any good. He never changed. His behavior was always my fault according to him so I was always trying my best to keep things running smoothly, etc to hopefully keep from making him angry and all that follows with it. Waste of time...total waste of time. All that worry and stress I put myself through! I am working now on forgiving myself for that and moving foward.

Again, you need to think about you children and yourself. Doesn't sound like a healthy environment right now. Alcoholism is progressive, it will only get worse.
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