The shoulds, coulds, and what might be ifs always put me in negative town USA.
None if those thought matter...they are not facts all fantasy. The truth can stuck so the shoulds seem like a safer option for our egos but it really accomplishes nothing.
For me it's better to deal with the initial sting of the truth than o get caught up in what should be...sometimes I don't catch my self and I pay the price.
It is what it is now what am I going to do? Funny how I don't do what would probably be best for me...thats the 100,000,000.00 Codie question.