Happy birthday!
I got to the point in my marriage where I stopped expecting ANYTHING from him and started planning my own birthdays. I bought my own presents, including dinner out or a trip if I had the money. I would take my kids and celebrate and just leave him to do whatever (usually drink). I have to say those were some of the best birthdays I remember. Don't count on him to make your day special. Get busy making it special for yourself!
L