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Old 05-10-2012, 09:38 AM
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GerandTwine
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Anonymous Big Planning - A Great Teaching Method

Originally Posted by GerandTwine View Post
Since a Big Plan commitment cannot be proven to another person, there is a possible result of using AVRT successfully that could unintentionally leave dangling threads in Sober Recovery's format of communication.

Someone making a Big Plan could, very logically, decide not to tell anyone else, and with good purpose. For example, if a spouse is addicted, the impact of a Big Plan announcement might have counterproductive effects on the relationship.

In the anonymous format here on SR, when someone learns AVRT and makes a Big Plan, there is no AVRT based reason to go any further, or even announce having made a Big Plan.

Someone who's made a Big Plan has to know they've made it because they can't lie to themselves, and no one else can ever truly know that they've made it because it's purely an inside the brain cascade of synaptic connections. So, why tell anyone, especially on an anonymous forum?

So, when we see someone here clearly getting their nose to the door of the Big Plan, it doesn't mean they haven't already opened it and gone through.

It is even possible for someone to say they have not made the Big Plan when they really have, although it's harder to imagine good purposes for doing so.
Having said all the above, there is another side to publicizing anonymous people learning and using AVRT in real time. That's why I think TU is spot on with the goal of teaching (and encouraging others to teach) AVRT here even to the point of drawing out the process of people making their Big Plans. I, and I see some others, attempt to do the same.

I believe what's going on here is one of the best ways to engage and enlighten both addicted and non-addicted people who may be unsure about other methods of recovering.

See my post from two months ago about "History in the Making".

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post3309108
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