Wow - you took the step you wanted (er, you know what I mean) to take and you did it. I think you deserve an awesome hug for that. (((((HUG)))))
Just wanted to share with you...our 3 year wedding anniversary was April 18. So though I haven't filed (yet?) I am right there with you. For me, I can't take the stonewalling and emotional abuse any longer.
Keep us updated, we are all here for you.