I have to say though, at least he told you he wants a divorce, which means he doesn't want to be in control of you. My father, on the other hand, wanted to stay married to my mom and at the same time practice concubinage...lol he didn't want a divorce, he wanted to "pretend" he was a bachelor but with a house and wife to go "home" to...
BTW, he's what the folks of SR would call a "normie" or non-alcoholic/addict.