Okay, here is the one that originally got me wondering...
"I did find Al anon useful when dealing with loved ones in addiction...I had used the program and it was years before my drinking slid me into alcoholism."
First time I read that, I was thinking, "you worked the al-anon program for years...you KNOW what it's like...why on earth would you then become an alcoholic and do the same thing to loved ones that other A loved ones did to you?"
By "you" I mean anyone, no one in particular.