Lies, Lies and More Lies
My husband has been sober for nearly 3 years. His anniversary is May 12. And he is still a liar. He lies when he says hello i'm X and i'm a alcoholic. He lies. He doesn't believe that he is REALLY an alcoholic. And then he lies at other times... Like when he say he love me. Or when he says "she's just a friend and i won't see her again." He is no longer drinking, but he is still lieing. He is no longer drinking, but he is still lieing and manipulating me. In his own words he is taking advantage of me.
I don't understand what to do. I want him to go away. His lies have cost me more than I can bare. But I have kids.. teenager.... and i don't want to hurt them. He is here... even tho I want him gone... even tho the sight of him hurts.
When is it ok for me to put me first?