??? I didn't ask you to, I was just asking if you MUST do it that way...
Their are no musts in AA.............You can do whatever you want as long as your prepared to live w/the the consequences of your actions. You can do it upside down & naked if you want. Just accomplish the given objective, which is an honest, searching, fearless, through, inventory of the moral character defects that have kept you in bondage to alcoholic.