I suggest columns. It helps us to see the patterns better.
1. Name: 2. Resentment: 3. Affects My: 4. My Part:
Then list the name, resentment, what it affects, and your part, but I couldn't see my part without the help of a sponsor. I used lined paper and only had about 4 lines between each person. I completed column 1, then I went down column 2, then 3, then 4. That is where I needed another alcoholic to see how I behaved in each situation as I often couldn't see my part. It's also about putting our ego aside and truly seeing our part.
Best wishes,