Originally Posted by
Cyranoak 
Passive-aggressive controlling, codependency, and the inability to observe boundaries all in one fell swoop. Wow.
Please consider minding your own business, and please consider Alanon if you aren't already going.
Cyranoak
I came her for help, but not judgment. I really don't appreciate your sarcasm. Is it your business if I go to al-Anon or not? I do, I realize there is an issue here, but I really don't think your tone is very civil, particularly since I've admitted in the thread that I realized it wasn't a good idea and other people had since talked me out of it.
Thanks to everyone for your honest but not judgmental feedback. I really do appreciate it. Like others here, I'm experiencing deep loss and pain, learning to let go, and trying to grow as a person.