You alone bear the burden of command for the decisions you make concerning the rest of your life.It sounds like you are making wise ones that are putting others in your circle very ill at ease.....because it breaks with the dysfunction and puts you back on a healthy path---to life,love,and the pursuit of your highest and best life.
Nice thing about SR I've found......NONE of us can possibly know you or have any possible conflict of interest.Noone here derives benefit from your continued enslavement
and/or oppression.
I had a codie thing going---came here----got straight talk---and solved my codie problem.
My continued thanks to hope2be, Anvilhead, & outtolunch.