Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy I suppose I can always rebuild my career & reputation & I'll always have my integrity. Right now all he has is anger & resentment & that's got to blow up in his face at some point right?
This is great, and yes you are right. If you give people enough rope, eventually they will hang themselves.
My wise Mother told me long ago, when I was going through my first divorce, to be sure I always acted with integrity because it was me (and only me) who had to look at myself in the mirror each day. Guess that is similar to the "play the tape forward" concept.
Act in a way that your girls will one day be proud of, regardless of what he does. Trust me...it is worth it. Even though it was damn hard to do sometimes!
Prayers!
~T