I believe you do qualify for unemployment - check into that. It can help tide things over. Secondly, if you are unemployed, because of this debacle, I would imagine that won't bode well in divorce court, eh?
Lastly...get a camera. Put it on your front porch. Make sure you never have interactions that aren't in that spot being video taped. This is not over. From this point forward, never be alone with him, even with him and your kids. Time to CYA.
Congrats on the charges. And as hard as it is to think about right now, when our HP closes one door, another opens. Keep your eyes out for it.