I know of a male who gave his 5th step to a prostitute on the street. Turns out he hit a strong nerve in her past and got a really lively talking to about what he had done! HP works in mysterious ways!
Just thought I'd throw this in here. It doesn't matter who you tell those deep dark secrets to, just do it. Some of that 5th step needs to be shared with the sponsor for many reasons.
Keep staying stopped!