I have, over the past couple of years, come a very long way recovering from my codependency.
Anyway, I am starting to feel surrounded by codies. Family members who are still codependent enablers. These are people that I can't and don't necessarily want to just shut out of my life, but each conversation drives me a little more batty! I can call about something TOTALLY off topic of the A, and the conversations are almost immediately hijacked and by the time I am off of the call I am annoyed and angry.
I have stated in the past that I don't want to talk about it, but somehow it always comes up. I guess I am the last link to the A, even if it is only because I am the mother of his children. It almost feels like a new kind of manipulation. I'm not really sure what to do about it. Just wanted to vent more than anything.
