Wow...Amy...thanks for sharing , that is so interesting...I too am 5'3...and many moons ago weighed 110...and my dad used to tell me I was fat, ugly, and dumb. Looking back, I was none of those things, and if I could go back and hug that little girl and tell her she's beautiful and smart, I would. My hubby used to take shots at my weight but then his soared to 300 lbs, so he can't say much about that anymore. He's not as abusive as my dad, but it is true that nothing I do is ever right in his eyes. I didn't notice it as much when I was drunk all the time. This really hurts!! It is nice to meet you, even if under these circumstances, and I congratulate you on your sober time.