People tell you what they recognize about themselves or what they tell themselves.. I truly believe this and see it often... its just projection.
I am also feeling defensive at work and it doesn't help.
I hope you can block this person and anyone else who is toxic. Facebook sucks. I have more blocked people than "friends" LOL.
Truth prevails, remember we all have a one-on-one with God at some point, she will have to respond to HP.
You keep on being the strong woman you are.