Job well done, FLA!!!
InsertName pretty much nailed my feelings on the subject. I don't see anything wrong with going to a party if you're at the point where you KNOW that's the last thing you want to do to yourself. Where you've completely changed your attitude towards booze & drugs. But if there's even the slightest twinkle of want residing somewhere in your head, you could be playing with fire.
I can go into a drinking environment now and instead of it making me want it, it has the opposite effect. I see people acting like lunatics, making poor decisions, fighting for no reason, putting themselves in danger, etc and it reinforces my desire to never drink again. BUT - I can also say that this is the first time in my life I've ever reached this point, and every other such time would have been a temptation for me rather than a deterrent.
Anyway - don't mean to **** on your parade, FLA. You did good!!!