wicked- i did wonder very briefly about all of that-- wondered if there were some slander line being crossed, wondered how to track down a probation officer about some info the D has shared at work about her mothers regular continued drug use... i definitely have had moments of vinidictiveness run through me today and in the end i think that i will mention this to my lawyer so he is aware but will do and say nothing.
not piping up to defend myself feels unnatural BUT doing so (defending myself against nastiness) with AH has never once worked out in my favor and ignoring him seems to be the best plan so i imagine that's true for this "crazeeee" mother and daughter too.
again, here i am putting my values and spin on othes behavior but really? who does what they did? who tries to shame a person they know nothing about who has been nothing but good to them? that's just low life at its finest.