He smells fear or weakness in me and goes on the attack. I'm trying something new w this faking strength no matter how I actually feel and I hope AH is agitated and self imploding as I type this bc of it
Yes. This is torture for the narcissist, he does not know! Can't get info. His latest bomb fizzled, like Suki said.
He is going crazy wondering why you aren't freaking out.
I wrote "keep faking it", but you no longer need to fake it. You now know how to deal with him, and that is no information at all. Oh, yes, he will be agitated. hehehehe
Can you ask your lawyer about making it difficult to see the girls?
Like an alcoholic can call and say "cant make it."
can you say, "oopsy, i forgot it was your day?" No, I guess not.
That would just add to his basket of crazy.
Just hang on and tell him nothing.
Beth