Can you go to the magistrate and get a temp emergency protective order, at least til this is all over and the kids have been in counseling awhile? Talk to your attorney. He/she may be able to point you in the right direction. I've been keeping up with your story and it just amazes me how wronged you were. Keep the faith, you're stronger than you know. Cry when you need to and don't make a move without your attorney's advise. (((Hugs)))