" My AH is full of shi*t and is making crap up to appease me"....I'd vote for that conclusion.
Based on what I have read, my gut tells me that your hubby is not done a drink'in and a driv'in. I'd get him off my insurance toot sweet and start stashing money..red flags are waving right in front of your face..if you chose to ignore them...there will be a price to be paid.