A couple of days ago, I went to lunch with my boyfriend. It's been about 30 days that he's been in this sober house.
I asked him if he ever feels remorse for what he's done and he says that he doesn't really feel badly. He says that as he's working through the steps, the step about making amends to the people he has hurt is going to be the hardest one.
He said something like, "it is what it is, relapse just happened".
My question is, should I EVER expect an apology? Or is this just the nature of an addict?