ach, this makes me uneasy. synchronicities are not necessarily divine.
nevertheless, i hope your intuition is correct and that your man is as willing to change and grow as you are. you are educated about this disease, you know what to look for. you can wholeheartedly give this one more try whilst continuing to set boundaries and work on your own recovery.
i understand you are being honest and open with him. but is he stepping up also? for example, did he own up to hacking into your SR account?