Originally Posted by
KelleyF 
It's the other stuff I don't want to help with. I guess you're right I'm enabling.
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You might as well be the crack dealer who makes home deliveries.
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This is just a mean thing to say in my opinion.
He would be using without het help, except now he would be homeless or possibly dead. It's not a good situation granted- but really.
See that's the double edged sword... he could be dead if we allow them to comfortably continue. If things are made tougher, then maybe something can stop before it gets to that point. We can't stop what they insist on doing, but we can certainly not contribute. And the less we are involved, the better chance we have of understanding that it had nothing to do with OUR decisions.