Ex it doesn't matter, he is my friend, he is my ex live in never actually married. I just wanted to arrange it so I don't hve to give him as much because he gets more on his disability and arrange it so I don't give him anymore than that said amount. I pay the rent myself or else he'll blow it. usually I bring the groceries, he's used to getting the cash and the groceires. I'm trying to keep this reasonable, I am not making money right now as I have my own health problems My idea is if I say I'm in the hospital he will lay off me