...because I used to do it all the time. I still catch myself now and then. All in all it sounds like you are taking care of yourself, working the self-awareness angle, and working on yourself in general so kudos!
C-
Originally Posted by
Florence 
Stop being right. I was just about to defend myself re: putting the ball in his court, but that's its own method of control, isn't it?
Well, I don't know. I'm getting a lot of mixed messages about early sobriety and I'm unable to tell what's him being him and what's the fog of early recovery. My counselor is urging inaction until I have all the facts from an addiction counselor, so that's part of it.