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Old 03-30-2012, 10:39 AM
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Florence
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Yeah, the lack of sex is a serious downer. I'm 31, smart, good looking, and aching for that feedback. I want to know that my husband finds me attractive, but there's a lot of nothing. It's not personal, but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. To top it off, I had a baby seven months ago and going without any positive feedback from him sucks. FWIW, my RAH is 33 so I don't think it's an age thing.

You already have your answer. Now what's your next move?
Sigh. Well, since I wrote this, I went ahead and called the marriage counselor myself. I want a professional opinion about what is reasonable for me to expect emotionally, physically, etc.

I have to stop looking at the relationship's potential and look at what's right in front of me. It seems like my options are to get used to this or to move on. The ****** part about moving on is that it means going back to single parenthood with a new baby again. Did it once, really didn't want to to this with/to a second child.
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