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Old 03-29-2012, 10:42 AM
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itsmylifenow
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I was just going to put a post on this myself today. I can't imagine why I'm having this need to talk to him. For what??? He'll have an attitude, be all pissed off because I'm living my life and doing things with my friends but I can't include him in anything.

NoDay said it perfectly, "I realize that I miss being in love, I miss having someone be concerned about me, and I miss sharing our lives, but I also realize that I don't miss knowing that he just doesn't have the emotional maturity to be my partner."

I need to remind myself that what he offers me isn't what I need. It was only a small, small bit of what real love should be. Once I find that total love again I'm sure I'm going to be thinking how crazy I was to accept so little.

I just need something to do to let the emotions go by without acting on them. Anyone have a technique for working through that moment when you need the ex fix?
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