is it wrong for me to still talk to him? we've e-mailed back and forth a couple times since i've kicked him out and relief washes over me every time i hear from him. i get so worried about him that even a few words make it easier to sleep at night. i don't plan on enabling him in the slightest. we've talked about us both being unhealthy and that time apart is for the best. i know it's a slippery slope, and that by talking, it's just easier for him to manipulate, but i still haven't given up hope that one day he will have is life together. the seed has been planted and he knows what he needs to do.. and that he has to do it without me this time.