nodaybut2day - that is a great idea! Yeah there is a lot of stuff that I don't want in a future partner. No addictions is one thing for sure.
My AH's best friend thinks that perhaps he had an addictive personality as he used to be a chain smoker as well, and there were other addictions.
For me its no more addictions. I'm the complete opposite. There is nothing in my life I can't live without, except my kids of course! Love those little guys.