Your wrote: I be married 3 years this coming May. It's been a rocky ride being married to an acholic= Ive been married 27 years and he still hasnt changed.
Who cares what his family thinks. They are not living with him and you dont have to either.
"Rocky Ride"-I call it a roller coaster. Personally, if you dont see any actions to the words that he says then its time to Let go and Let God.
How do you know when an alcoholic is lying? Answer: When his lips move.