Just go to the forum "friends and family of substance abusers."
At the top it will say "new thread" and just click on that
Then tell us your story if you want and that will give us a chance to reply directly yo you more easily.
It has been 2 years for me and only 2 months in the SR forum. It has helped so much even if you have grown apart and let go. There is so much to learn here. Welcome Jolinda.