"In my marriage, I had to do EVERYTHING. When is someone gonna do something for me?!"
Hey, I didn't say it was a HEALTHY feeling, just how I feel. And you know, it's true. I DO want a bit of kid-glove treatment. Is that SO bad?
I get that. And actually, I don't think there's a thing wrong about that feeling. In a normal healthy relationship, you do do things for each other. I think that's a healthy feeling. Not if it means you expect to lay on the couch while your new beau tends to your every need every second of the day -- but I see nothing wrong with wanting to make sure your next man wants to do that
sometimes, when you really need it -- as long as you're ready to give him the same treatment when
he needs it.