Originally Posted by
Armywife925 1. She DID NOT say she was helping someone else. I should've clarified that her sponsie is me.
2. If your friend dies and your sponsor wasnt there for you either and didnt give a .. you'd be pissed off too.
3. I know my anger is mine but I think I have a right to have a resentment against her.
4. I'm sure she wouldn't be too happy if god forbid one of her friends died and I was her sponsor and I didn't care that she was upset and a mess.
armywife, condolences about your friend, but your sponsor is there to guide you through the steps, not to hold your hand, and resentments are like peeing in your own pants, no one feels it but you...let it go and move on, we alcoholics cant afford to get resentful or angry...that stuff threatens recovery