Sky10 each situation is the same, but different!! My son had relapsed and he lives in another state. He lied, lied and lied. I know the ecomony is bad and I really believed he was still doing well.
So did his sister! I tried to help him not knowing he had been partying so much with his girlfriend on MY MONEY!!!
I wish some one had told me - I finally figured it out and I am so p**** at myself for trusting him. This was his worse conn yet and the girl was in on it!! Believe me it's the last dime I'll ever give him.
Even if she does not believe (or want to believe it) you will know you tried. Nothing gained, nothing lost! I understand how it is to love someone that will not (or can not) help themselves.