Originally Posted by
Doloresk13 
Because I still love him, but reading all of this, really makes me feel like there may be no hope for him ever recovering etc. I would love for my family to stay together, we have five kids between us, and our first baby together on the way, and that hurts knowing that he is this typical, to the point where I see all these things are said by exes, thereby not one of them got help etc. Does that make sense?
Oh yes, it does make sense. I am very sorry.
You can still take care of yourself.
All the blame shifting and taking no responsibility for himself, and blaming his
future drinking on the possibility you will
naghim while he is sober.
Find an Alanon group for yourself, and I know with five kids it would be difficult, but you will need the knowledge and the strength of the group to understand and get through this.
We are here for you, 24/7.
:ghug3
Beth