Thank you to all the Mom's and other posters for your great input! I truly appreciate it.
I thought about asking her if she wanted to go to a Nar Anon meeting with me, but I don't think she really is in to wanting to help herself. I do think she knows he is using weed, but I don't think she knows about how out of control the other addictions are. His last drug of choice was meth, which was 4 years ago. I think she just believes he has learned his leason by going to prison.
I know as a Mother it is the hardest thing to watch your son's or daughter's self destruct and there isn't a dam thing you can do about it. My prayers are going out to all of your addicted love ones. I truly hope they can find the help they need. You all are doing the best you can, and have armed yourself with the right tools to help yourself, and someday them when they are ready.
**hugs**