Originally Posted by
Ceejaysbag 
I hope I don't offend with my words or opinions, I don't know you or the entirity of your situation but we found ourselves on SR because of a common problem and by sharing our thoughts and experiences I hope we all help each other in some way.
Never feel offended... I just need honest and straight forward opions to keep my mind clear. Thanks so much.
I know that nobody could help me go through the emotion chao except myself. But SR really helps a lot.
I know that "if I hope him to be tough enough to stop cocaine & alcohol; I'd rather work harder on myself and force myself to tough up to stop my confusion". If i expect myself to fix other, I must fix myself first.