I am so sorry you had to go through that. It seems as if your lawyer seems to be willing to fight on your behalf. That is important. Also, when you go to court I would guess that they will see how you were the victim in previous cases. That fact that he was willing to have you arrested in front of your kids, proves he is a evil & sick man. This is about as serious as things can get. Please take care & be careful. Your ex seems like he not only has a alcohol problem but also serious mental health problems.