Well I packed up his things last night and put it in his van. I thought I would cry but I felt so empty and cold. I just did it and then went off to another chore I had to get done before bed. He gets here tomorrow to pick it up his things and the van. I put the keys in the van and will have everything locked up tight inthe house so there is no chance of him going in. I am very nervous about this but keeping his things will only give him a reason to keep contacting me and come back. I don't know if this is a right or wrong move but I do want that van off my driveway. Too many bad memories and sleepless nights associated with it.