Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
I think that deep down, you already know when enough is enough. When you cut the cord, it won't be easy. It will hurt. But there are worse things than cutting the cord...and that's staying in a situation that robs a little bit of your soul every day.
Go read a post I wrote called "Busy Living Life". Whether you believe it or not, there is life after we leave the addict (or the addict leaves us). And I kid you not: if I can get through it, so can you. You just have to decide that you can and reaffirm that belief every day.
God Bless. I'll be thinking of you.
ZoSo