TCB,
I am sorry to hear this but glad nothing major happened to the kid.
It seems this man is not going to change his drinking and this can have serious consequences to you, to the family. What happens now? are you OK continuing to live like this? you and the kids are in danger and a next similar episode is bound to happen, not a matter of if but a matter of when. Do you realize how serious this is...? I agree it is bad and insane situation.
Who is your real life support system?
If this was post from another SR member, what would be your advice to her?
((Hugs))