Originally Posted by
Tuffgirl 
I agree with LTD - be very cautious. What if you encouraged a relationship with the BF outside of your relationship you have with the BF? If you think he is a good influence on your son, that is? Would it be possible that way?
It's a hard decision to make - having been in the same situation as you - so prayers to you today.
Tuffgirl, do you mind sharing your story as to how it relates here, and then let me know what did work and what didn't work? I'd really appreciate it.