Originally Posted by
yez5 
I am getting a new phone. The one I currently have was given to us by his Mother and she was paying for it since we couldn't afford. She keeps trying to make me give him more chanes. I don't think she understands how bad its been. But he is with her now so maybe she finally will. Anyway I am mailing the phone back to her as soon as I have my new one.
It's common stuff for families to impose the burden of keeping their adult child clean and sober on the spouce. It's easier than accepting that their adult child is a dope fiend.