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Old 03-13-2012, 07:33 PM
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KelleyF
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Originally Posted by yez5 View Post
He was never violent. Just cruel with his words. He would be himself for small moments and then this stranger would appera and nothing I do or did would be good enough. Kids are too loud, food taste strange, house is too disorganised... I work all day and then pick up the kids and feed them, clean them, homework, bedtime... But I don't give him the attention he needs. He says that if we were closer and communicated more maybe it would help.
Just keep in mind all those words were caused by his addiction.
My BF is recovering from a cocaine addiction too. From what I understand it can cause sort of like hyper activity,impulsive actions, irritability, restlessness, anxiety among other things..I'm sure other drugs are similar but it helped me to understand what affect it has.

Someone will likely come along and say his behavior without drugs may have just been that way; possibly true - only you know that.

Stay strong; have faith; you will be okay.
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